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Axioms of Relationship – part 5
A few nights ago I was reading Dickens’ A Tale of Two Cities to my kids. We paused for a few moments to discuss the implications of that famous statement “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times.” Relationships truly are the best and worst of times. Your greatest joy and your deepest pain will happen in, and because of, your relationships. The highest highs and the lowest lows are firmly rooted in your relationships.
Axioms of Relationships – part 4
All or None Picture your own relationship. What could happen in that relationship that would be a deal breaker? What trauma(s) would cause your relationship
Axioms of Relationships – part 3
Wash, Rinse, Repeat In relationships, we often repeat the same patterns of interaction, over and over, irregardless of whether the patterns bring us satisfaction or
Axioms of Relationships – part 2
Axiom #2: It’s a Trio, not a Duet Picture this: you’re attending your friend’s wedding ceremony. The officiant pronounces the two love birds wed, the
Axioms of Relationships – part 1
Everyone’s seeking satisfying relationships. Spouses, parents, and co-workers all want the same thing – satisfaction. I have spent a great deal of time and energy